我想我应该单身够久了，可是有时候依然搞不太清楚，我是不是真的喜欢一个人。以前选择的人，到底是因为有意还是无意？没办法进入长期关系，从某种角度来讲，应该是自己故意为之吧。害怕孤单，更加害怕承担；不喜欢一个人，却又害怕两个人相处；一想到要永远和某个人在一起就感到害怕，有这种想法，到底是因为没有遇到足够想要的人，还是因为舍不得离开没有束缚的自由？
最初我真的是抱着学习点什么的想法来看这个电影的，看完之后学到什么了呢？不管是单身，还是相爱，都太需要勇气了。最关键的根本不是要单身或者要恋爱，而是搞清楚自己是谁，想要什么，能要什么。
如果还不太清楚，就先做做运动，看看书，反正还活着。
《He's Just Not That Into You》里几个人的故事放在一起来讲的，《How to Be Single》也是，并且一女遇多男 多给你几个例子。每个人的故事都不尽相同，道理/经验更多的需要自己经历和感悟。
这部比我比想象中好看唉，女主漂亮，喜欢的背景音乐，以及结尾的确像个指南，所以感觉还不错，没有其他评价了 只摘抄一下：
· I say I'm gonna do things all the time, and I never ever do them. like reading or something...
单身不单身都有利弊there are pros and cons to both of them.
· If we really want this(our relatioship) to work long term, I need to know who I am alone.
当然要了解自己 无论做什么事，爱自己也是必须的。
女主选择毕业时与男友have a break，我觉得不失为一个好的决定，尤其从结果来看。
· You're done with whatever you've been diong, with whoever you've been doing, and then you come running back to me.
其实没真正想明白之前，感情挫败之时，容易想起前任觉得前任好，偶遇重逢也是一种情况
If we really want this to work, long term, we need to know who i am alone and i don’t want to spend my life wondering “what if”.
We need to know what’s it like to be single at least once.
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The end of spontaneous sex, travelling by yourself and buying whatever you want without having to ask permission, right? Marriage! Good luck with marriage.
reading is for ugly losers
In three weeks from now, I think the novelty of this whole thing will have worn off and the reality will set in.
When i’m with her. I think Im a better me.
See, that’s the magic.That’s what I want to find.
Here’s to no drama.
单身指南：单身并不可怕
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